unexposedcharlottelarrystylinson:

(and generally applies to all types of relationships)

(little amount of stress is, of course okay. but sometimes it sucks to be stuck in the middle of finals and exams)

1. Take them away from the source of stress, it will take their minds off stuffs for a while

2. Make sure they stay hydrated. Water can relieve the side effects from stress and can also cool down your body

3. Let them cry however much they want to. Crying is a good way to relieve your bottled emotions. Just let them cry it out until they feel better for a bit.

4. Massage their heads. Stress sometimes bring a lot of headaches.

5. Cuddle with them. And a lot of cuddles. They need the attention and reassurance. Make them feel safe and not alone.

6. DO NOT. and i repeat. DO NOT EVER tell them there is nothing to be worried for. This actually makes them feel even worse. So don’t tell them what they’re stressing for is not worthy of being stressed over.

7. Talk to them if they need the distraction. They don’t have to answer back if they don’t feel like it. Just talk about anything light-hearted in general. And if they don’t wanna talk, just rub their backs gently.

8. Give them the stuffies while they’re doing the studying. It’s good to hug stuffies and it can relive the level of stress while studying.

9. Always keep an eye on how they’re feeling. Because when you’re stressed, your immune system is usually weaker, so make sure they’re not sick or something.

10. Bubble baths !! A good bath can always bring a smile !!

11. Sex is of course, a way to relieve stress. (Make sure it’s what they want, too.) Coz it can relieve the endorphins. However, make sure there is enough AFTERCARE. Give it hours even. Stress and insufficient aftercare is double the trouble. This may even cause huge subdrop.

12. Don’t let them hurt themselves. Be prepared for the mild mood swings. Be prepared for the tears. And be prepared of the little moods.

13. Take them to bed early, no matter what. Sufficient sleep can reduce the amount of stress, prevent depression, and restore energy, also gives a clearer state of mind. Bedtime !!!

14. This is a list of common symptoms of stress.

15. Tell them “you’re doing good.” “I’m proud of you.” “You’re okay.” and just be there for them.

This is something I can’t stress enough, feel free to add things to the list.

Last year, exactly on this day, my grandpa passed away.
May he be remembered from that day, until forever.

Rest in Peace.

owlmylove:

littlebooklings:

owlmylove:

if you were praised for being smart as a child and now feel crippling sensations of inadequacy when you don’t instantly know how to do something perfectly clap your hands

I thought this was going to give advice but nope it’s just telling me to clap my hands

yeah sorry man i don’t know what to do either

littleprincelogan:

beeisalittle:

So I’m at 391 followers right now, and in calibration of almost being at 400 I want to do a promo! 🙂
Heres the catogorys for the promo
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Best queer little space blog
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Best trans little space blog
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Best little boy blog
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Best non bianary little blog
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Best little girl blog
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Best sfw blog
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Neat url’s
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Ok so that’s the catagorys, now here’s how I’m gonna do it. If you think that your little space blog (preferably at least mostly sfw) fits one or more of these catagorys then reblog this! Il take a look at everyone who reblogs this before June 3, 2015 (which is one week from when I’m writing this) and pick blogs for the catogorys. I may pick more than one blog for each catogory. You don’t have to be following me, but I’d like it if you did 🙂

eeee! this is such a great idea. c: 

paraesthesie:

shoutout to mentally ill people who are in such a bad place that they can’t even fulfill basic tasks like grocery shopping or showering or getting dressed or taking their meds properly you are still wonderful and worthy of respect and i love you.