What is a Middle?

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cgl-advice:

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(source: littleswall)

Middles tend to be the forgotten side of the “littles” umbrella term. However they do exist! While littles are viewed as the younger ages of childhood, usually from infant to around 12, Middles are the older age group of any age under 18, so roughly 12-17. However not every little/middle puts a set age limit on their state of mind or headspace. Middles might also be known as Lolitas, Brats, Nymphets or Nymphs. 

Middles tend to be, but are not always, a little on the bratty or more outspoken side. They do tend to have a teenage mind set after all. They are often times a little more sexual or sexually driven as well. But Asexual middles do exist as well! Just like there is no right or wrong way to be a little, there is no right or wrong way to be a middle! It’s whatever works for you.

Middles enjoy all sorts of things. They enjoy cuddles with their caregiver, being spoiled, and special rewards for good behavior. Just like a little does! Middles can also enjoy other things!

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Here are some examples of Middle Space Activities or Interests-

  • Watching movies
  • Watching TV
  • Mall shopping Trips
  • Getting Manicures/Pedicures
  • Sexual “play time”
  • Video Games
  • Fashion shows or games
  • Make up/Dress up
  • Gossip Time
  • Social Media Time
  • Technology
  • Flirting
  • Dancing
  • Reading Books
  • Journaling
  • Hair Dye 
  • Piercings & Tattoos
  • Teasing
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Are there any good movies or TV shows for Middles?

  • Jawbreaker (movie)
  • Gossip Girl (TV)
  • Awkward (TV)
  • Gilmore Girls (TV)
  • Lolita (movie)
  • The Heather’s (movie)
  • Mean Girls (movie)
  • Braceface (tv)
  • The Craft (movie)
  • Beetlejuice (movie/tv)
  • Adams Family (movie)
  • The Breakfast Club (movie)
  • Tank Girl (movie)
  • Leon the Professional (movie)
  • 10 Things I hate About You (movie)
  • Cruel Intentions (movie)
  • American Pie (movie)
  • Clueless (movie)
  • My So Called Life (tv)
  • Dawson’s Creek (tv)
  • Buffy the Vampire Slayer (tv)
  • Clarissa Explains it All (tv)
  • Sabrina the Teenage Witch (tv)
  • Daria (tv)
  • Bob’s Burgers (tv)
  • Freaks and Geeks (tv)

What other things might Middles like?

  • Horror movies
  • Batman
  • Harley Quinn
  • Comics
  • Villains
  • Bats
  • Spooky things
  • Sunglasses
  • Fashion
  • Sex
  • Making out
  • Going on Dates
  • Being spoiled
  • Allowance
  • Suckers
  • Gossip
  • Drama
  • Friendships
  • Nerdy Things
  • Collecting things
  • Shopping
  • Harry Potter
  • Clothes
  • Accessories
  • Jewelry
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We hope we’ve educated you a little on the world of a middle! It’s a fun and magical place. Now just because it’s mentioned in our lists doesn’t mean you HAVE to like it to be a middle. You could even like entirely different things from what we’ve included, and that’s ABSOLUTELY ok. You are valid and you are real. 

Middles can be just as unique and different as other littles! Take time to discover yourself and what it all means to you.

xoxo
CGL Advice Team

!!!!!! @porcelain-starlet