No is no.

50-shades-of-fuckfuck:

Littles, you can still say no. If you don’t want to have sex, or do a certain thing your big wants you to do, you can say no. Don’t let someone punish you for not wanting to do something. If you don’t want to have sex, and you just want to cuddle, DO NOT let them try to punish you for that! Your body is still your body, and it is your right to say no. If you are being punished for not wanted to have sex with your big (or doing other things) then please have a serious conversation about it… Because NO IS STILL NO. It doesn’t matter who you are.

As for bigs… If your little says they dont want to have sex, or they just want to snuggle with a disney movie and a stuffie, please listen to them… Talk to them. Ask if anything is wrong. DO NOT punish them for it!! There could be something bothering them, physically or mentally. TALK. TO. THEM. PLEASE.

A RELATIONSHIP IS BUILT ON TRUST AND COMMUNICATION.

ENOUGH

markiplier:

I have had enough. For the first time in my years online I am dissapointed of what has become of this community. I can’t believe that you’ve allowed yourself to be torn apart by the scheming rumors of a few. I can’t believe that you’d ignore the greater cause of why we are here for your own personal satisfaction. I can’t believe that you’d think that I am worth squabbling over.

If you think that this community is about any one individual’s standing over anyone else, including myself, then you are in the wrong place. If you have ever belittled, threatened, insulted, or berated anyone else in the community FOR ANY REASON then you are in the wrong. I don’t even care if you think I’m missing the point of why you’re waging your own personal war. IT ENDS TONIGHT. And more to the point let me ask you one question that you really need to reflect on:

Are you making the world a better place?

If you want to squabble and bicker about gossip and problems, take it somewhere else. Here. Right here. We build each other up. We never bring each other down. We NEVER threaten each other. We never attack those whose opinions may differ from our own. In this community we hold ourselves to a higher standard to show an EXAMPLE of what a true community should be to the rest of the world. I will not stand for this pointless arguing. I WILL NOT STAND FOR IT.

And if you think for even one second that I’ll allow this to continue then you are dead wrong. I may want to make the world smile but you can be DAMN sure that I’ll protect what this community represents with my life. We are better than this. We are stronger than this. It’s time to change. And it starts tonight.

-Mark

me: i should probably tell people how i feel today
me: it can’t be healthy keeping it all bottled in
me: i need to open up to somebody
somebody: hey how are you
me: I AM ABSOLUTELY FINE

lynxgriffin:

Lion has found a tire toy but does not know how it works!

Based on this gif

What they don’t mention about #growingupwithstrictparents:

bigwheels270:

hannah-is-a-butt:

mulderstop:

ohpierre:

thewikigirl:

sneakymedulla:

imaginegeekdoms:

clintbarthon:

vixen-oxo:

thedependantloner:

– The resentment that begins to build up and damage your relationship with your parents because your missing out on being a kid.

– The self destructive tendencies that develop when you get your freedom.

– Extreme Behaviour that can be dangerous because you feel as if you have to catch up on all the life you have been missing.

– A constant sadness that your never going to live life enough.

– Developing anxiety over doing things as simple as riding the bus.

– Massive issues with authority.

– Fear of commitment because you feel as though it is going to tie you down and take away from your freedom again.

etc…

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– Fear of commitment because you feel as though it is going to tie you down and take away from your freedom again. ‘ This is is me in a nutshell

All of this.

#compulsive lying all the time because youre so used to doing so that telling the truth is weird #being terrified of asking if a friend can come over #hiding everything you feel and then exploding #being manipulative #The self destructive tendencies that develop when you get your freedom #that one is the realest one tho (via howlingcutemando)

Feeling like you’re useless when you’re not doing something productive.

never being able to stand up for yourself, because of your inherent fear you will be severely punished – even if you are in the right

feeling you are never right, even if you are

caving easily to abusive situations, because you grew up learning how to be controlled, that it was “wrong” to exercise power, that it was “wrong” to defend yourself, and not knowing anything about self-respect or having self-esteem

second-guessing yourself nonstop

hiding your entire life from your strict family – even if it means they go to their deathbeds not knowing what has happened to you, because it will just mean you earn only their disapproval or disgust.

non-stop self-hate

non-stop paranoia

-feeling like you have to “prove” yourself

-never feeling good enough

-developing insecurities that eventually grow but stay hidden because you’ve been told that maybe asking a question a few times extra just to be sure everything’s ok is “weird”

-being afraid to make friendships, reach out, or go out because your afraid of doing something wrong

-always being afraid that someone is mad at you

-getting criticized for years on end then getting questioned on all sides as to why you’re so negative about yourself

I’m glad I’ve been outgrowing a lot of this, and moving out worked to be a good thing between me and my parents.

To all of my friends, this is the reason why I do the things I do

I don’t always relate so heavily to these kinds of things but damn if I don’t feel 99% of these

I thought I was so weird for being like this.

Take your crying little seriously

dykemommy:

All caregivers should take their Littles tears seriously. It doesn’t matter if your little is very sensitive and seems to cry over “nothing” it usually is something to them and if you can comfort them then you are only benefiting your relationship and making it stronger and getting more insight to how your little thinks.

topcas:

my moms favorite pastime is to come into my room, insult all of my life choices, list everything i already know i need to do making me 10x more stressed about it than i was before, then leave my door open

noblehumor:

wildflower-faerie:

thishazeleyeddemon:

autieblesam:

lesbianshepard:

my fave greek history story to tell is that of agnodice. like she noticed that women were dying a lot during childbirth so she went to egypt to study medicine in alexandria and was really fucking good but b/c it was illegal for women to be doctors in athens she had to pretend to be a man. and then the other doctors noticed that she was 10x better than them and accused her of seducing and sleeping with the women patients. like they brought her to court for this. and she just looked at them and these charges and stripped in front of everyone like “yeah. im not fucking your wives” and then they got so mad that a woman was better at their jobs then them that they tried to execute her but all her patients came to court and were like “are you fucking serious? she is the reason you have living children and a wife.” so they were shamed into changing the law and that is how women were given the right to practice medicine in athens

Yeah, this isn’t some Greek myth story about a hero or demigod or something, Agnodice was a real person who actually did this.

jynnislorg

Another amazing woman from history.